I am a Libra Man who has enjoyed three Aries Women as my lovers. I will be seeing my first girlfriend who was an Aries, today. Rena was an Aries, as was Laurie, whom I lived with for two years. I love reading about our astrological relationships. What drama! Having Aries rising kept me alive. I would not be able to see the world I study, if I had not been driven to the brink of despair by an Aries woman. She is the Woman that Abraham – tamed! Or, so it is written. Why did Jacob bid his sons to marry Aries Women – who had no regard for The Law and The Scales?
Loving an Aries woman can be the most thrilling and terrifying experience of your life. If she truly loves you (oh and you’ll know), she’ll be so devoted. Maybe too devoted. She will want to share herself with you. She will divulge secrets that she’s kept locked up tight her whole life. In doing so she is trusting you with not only her emotions and her life, but with her soul. The problem is that an Aries woman won’t understand if you can’t do the same. She gives you her soul she expects yours in return. If this ram doesn’t receive what she desires, she’ll feel completely devastated that she let someone break her tough shell.
A female ram only let’s someone in if she thinks it’s for life. Once she has made up her mind that you don’t feel the same (whether you actually do or not isn’t important at this point..you’ll never convince her otherwise), she will terrorize you until the next poor victim comes along. This could possibly be as short as a week, for as I said she has that way about her, but be prepared in case it lasts longer. Hurt is shown through anger with an Aries woman. She’ll call you every name thinkable, use your weaknesses against you, tell other people what secrets you did share. This injured ram will use any means necessary (this includes violence) to ruin your life.
I don’t want anyone to be afraid of an Aries woman. They probably sound like a bit much, but there is plenty of good to go along with the bad. And if you are caught up in a battle with one, I feel pretty confident in sharing my ideas of ways to escape. First…you need to make yourself very unappealing. Do things you know she hates. Take on characteristics she would never be able to deal with. Then beg her to be with you. Literally get on your knees and beg. Act like a sad pathetic teenager from some lame romance movie. Cling to her legs and tell her you are sorry and you want to spend forever by her side making it up to her. Keep telling her about how you’ll never spend time with anyone else but her. An Aries woman doesn’t want to be smothered. And she doesn’t like pathetic.
It is very important that you do not blow off an Aries woman. If you are finished with her don’t disappear with the cold shoulder. As I said earlier, an Aries woman loves a challenge and she wants everything she thinks she can’t have. If you make her think she can’t have you…she’ll chase you around forever. Simply end the game. Make her believe she’s won and she can have you forever…I guarantee she’ll be out the door and after the next one in the blink of an eye.
The Aries and the Libra bring together an extraordinary combination of Fire and Air. The attraction they feel for each other can be very powerful, mainly because each seems to offer what the other lacks. Both the Aries and the Libra are very friendly and warm in nature making each other feel comfortable in their company.
A Libra man is the most irresistibly charming gentleman of all the zodiac signs. His smile has a splendid magic that can trap anyone at first glance and his aura is splendid and very pleasant. He is basically a sentimental, considerate and intelligent man with an answer to all the questions of this world. He needs balance in every aspect of his life and is always fair with people around him. He in love is one of a kind romantic male with so much to express that his Aries woman just melts away in his charming art of loving. He is very kind and friendly towards her and usually avoids any kind of conflict between them.
An Aries woman is quick-tempered and emotional. But at the same time she is a very courageous and has a leader’s will to take any risk. Due to the impulsive nature and jealous nature of an Aries woman, she often feels remorseful while facing the consequences of her own behavior. Usually she can charm any Libra man by her passion and innocence which makes him feel excited and admired. She becomes a strong devotee of her Libra man’s charm and his efficiency to keep things balanced in life. The Libra male always respects the confidence and independence of his Aries woman and appreciates all her efforts.
The Aries woman becomes a very stimulating partner for Libra man giving him mental challenges he needs to keep himself tuned. As both are kind and friendly, it helps them to build a strong foundation for their relationship. She always tries to balance things for him and go out of proportions to support her man in every field of life. But she dislikes being the caretaker for any man and rather wants to be a companion. The thought of controversy fascinates her but he does everything to maintain harmony in life. She needs to learn to control her emotions and use fair logic to keep him with her.
The Libra man provides balance in his as well as his Aries woman’s life. He makes a firm grip on his lady with all his senses, optimism and appealing charisma. Tact and courtesy comes naturally to him, which makes her feel more warm and feminine with him. He shows her that she is irresistible and makes her feel desirable. But the blunt frankness of the Libra man can ignite the Aries woman to expose her irrational jealous nature. She must understand that when in an argument with his lady love, the only goal of the Libra man is to gain peace and justice. For him it’s not about winning or losing but about balance. As he is very well spoken and presents a very convincing argument, he can usually calm down his Aries woman. But frequent similar situations can become a source of irritation for both of them.
The Libra man’s unconquerable optimism along with the bright faith of the Aries woman, strikes a perfect chord. He has the potency and compassion she needs, while he adores her innocuous nature. As they deeply discover the miracles of bonding, she starts giving him the peace he needs, this also helps her to soothe out disappointments and fears of rejection. Both of them fill each other’s life with the friendly understanding and warmth that keeps them at peace forever. With each coming day the magic of the Libra male creates a new magic for her and her irresistible passion brings more pleasure and delight to their life.
At first their love making abilities seem like they came straight from a popular movie scene. Passion and lust fill the air as these two have a ball in the bedroom, but this does not last forever for these two. The Libras approach to sex is imaginative, light, and less intense. The Aries woman finds herself looking for anything solid to grab onto. The fragile love and aesthetic sexual response of him can leave her somewhat chilly. She needs plenty of warm affection and fiery lovemaking to feel completely fulfilled in a physical relationship. With this man she may be left feeling a little empty. He needs to comprehend that teasing her now and then, and his little exhibitionist displays, could be distracting to his Aries princess. He should better apply his creative skills to discover some abilities or strengths in her that nobody had previously realized were within her. In return, she would let him have the smooth feel of her skin and feel her in her most intimate, most feminine of ways. She must understand that it would be far more appealing, more sensual and more erotic for his Libra male if she does not hides her sex appeal but wisely use it to tease and attract him.
Competition is high between the Aries woman and the Libra man. Unless one of them accepts defeat graciously at least part of the time, there is usually no space for peace. He struggles with her scruffy behavior at times, but struggles to leave due to the amount of love she shows him. Similarly, she does not intend to be rude, and regrets hurting him. Aries are great at starting something and not finishing it, while Libra always tries to balance out everything they start in a perfect manner. In order for a relationship to workout between them, they must stay on the same team, avoiding opposing each other. This requires him to worry less about the imbalance and spend more time on “things that actually matter” and for her to have realistic expectations and laugh off the irritations and his erratic behavior.