After seeing Heather and Patrice Hanson’s video of ‘Her Perfect Daughter’ I had to conclude my daughter was never my daughter, and will never be my daughter. What this human being is, is, ‘The Perfectly Healed Inner Patrice’. So damaged was Patrices’ childhood, that no therapy could help. Only when she gave birth to a BABY GIRL was she able to project perfection on this child, which included aiming her at a famous woman artist, who is Heather’s aunt, more than, my sister. Heather and her mother shared the SAME GOALS! To be critical of my child, is to be critical of Patrice. To be critical of Patrice – is the end of the world – because this taints The Child’s Perfection’. They have to be perfect together. They can never be separated. There is no room for error, or critics. All critics will be DEMONIZED, made out to be DANGEROUS!
I was made out to be a MONSTER, and had to ask Ryan Hunt, if I could talk to my daughter alone. We walked on the Berekley Pier, alone. When we came back, Ryan was up in a observation tower keeping a close eye on me. Would I throw my offspring into the drink, in order to keep her away from the Rosamond Gallery – and my family? This is where THEY are heading. This is ‘The Final Goodbye’, but I don’t know it. Ryan does, and, Heather’s friends. I’m going to be edited out of Patrice’s Divine Story and Movie’. Her sister agrees. Heather not only deserves better, she deserves the best.
When imperfect Ryan got Perfect Heather, pregnant, Linda Comstock flipped out, and, they did not see each other for two years. Think about this. Two sisters who suffered extreme abuse by their father, are UN-FATHERING TWO FATHERS! Both damaged women are living vicariously through a child – who has no idea how severely she is being damaged. As for the fathers – how can they feel any pain. We are subhuman!
Below are three more e-mails written by Patrice, who posed as MY daughter. One is in response to PAS. The other two are about my daughter being pregnant. The morning sickness and what Heather ate, is written by Patrice. This is extreme mental illness. Not only will she not allow HER daughter to record ‘The Need of Perfection’, I am no allowed near ‘The Perfect One’. I am dealing with A FACADE!
As things stand now, Patrice and Tom Snyder took control of what is written about Christine and I, and, Vicki and Mark Presco, and other members of Heather and my family. The beautiful story of ‘The Lost Father And Daughter’ is utterly destroyed. I begged Patrice to let me go home and finish OUR STORY. No way was she going to allow this. She turned Heather against me – as I boarded the bus for home. Patrice took over. She is the hidden author – and Dictator! She made all Heather’s costumes. She tells me she is leaving it up to Heather whether she wants to continue having a relationship with me. She is a MINOR. Tom Snyder – A MAN – lured my daughter away from me. Patrice KNEW they would enhance his story. They would be able to CONTROL Tom, who would be NICE TO THEM, and not dare be critical, they making sure he knows why I have been UN-FATHERED! You can blame all this on Special Executor, Sydney Morris, who took all CONTROL of Christine’s legacy away from her family. Fatherly control, is DEAD!
Below are some accounts of parents being put in a moral dilemma upon learning their unwed daughter is pregnant. I could give links to a thousand more, to no avail. I will never get anything that resembles SYMPATHY for what I have been put through, what I have gone through, because, all the sympathy, love, and compassion is reserved for Patrice Hanson ‘The Wounded and Divine Child’.
Snyder could not use this crap! After seeing my daughter on the pier, she writes me and asks for MY HISTORY in the form of letters. She needs something to HAND TO TOM! What a complete betrayal! Will the adults involved in this act of a Judas, take any blame? No! I am depicted as being MORE DANGEROUS – and utterly INSANE!
All this shit did not happen to me. I better give up writing all together, because, the Hanson’s already owned a miracle-healing tale. Heather was told since she was two that she was the embodiment of her mentally ill grandmother, who jumped off a cliff. In heaven, god healed her of her mental illness, and is reborn in Heather The Healer, whose job is to heal her mother, and her sister and brother. Was she meant to heal Christine – if they found her in time? Snyder heard this………….and showed them the door!
I did not see or hear of my daughter for three years! I did my best to forgive her and all members of my family. The healing Christine and I tried to do with our Recovery, was an utter failure. They say Snyder’s evil book was published in 2000. Another lie! It was published in 2002. I own a copy.
In the end, Patrice will receive all the attention in my biography, for the damage she has done, for the pain she had caused me, for numbness I feel, and, the lack of love I have for my daughter. I should have worn a contraceptive. The Hansons were the worst family I could have ever born my child in. They were traumatized by the abuse of their father, and shame-based by the suicide of their mother. They were extremely sensitive to what other people thought of them. If you even looked like you owned a negative thought about them, your are………….THE ENEMY!
This is why they were happy when Bill Cornwell came along. He and his father saw me as THE ENEMY, too! I truly suspect this mad man wanted to throw me into the Grand Canyon, because he wanted Tyler to be his son. That would ensure I would not say anything negative about the Hansons – or the Cornwells! When I asked Bill if he knew I was writing a biography, and Heather would be in it, he lied.
“I didn’t know that!”
Bill’s seed is no good. He can’t get a woman pregnant.
If only the evil father had jumped off the cliff instead of the angelic mother. Then, there would not have been a need for her to incarnate into the soul-being of my daughter. Heather would just be………..normal!
Welllllll, almost. You are looking at a seventeen year old who is Scientologist on the verge of jumping ship because she is doing smart drugs with her lover – who is a man! They were surprised to learn The Career Daughter was pregnant. Ryan’s father wants nothing to do him, and thus, I WAS the only Grandfather in the mix.
Happy Un-father’s Day!
Jon Presco
Sent: Friday, April 27, 2007 10:54 AM
Subject: Parental Alienation Syndrome
Dear Heather;
I want you to read this, as much as possible, then discuss this with your therapist. You are continuing to alienate me as a parent, and now grandparent. This is because your mother, the gate keeper, told you this is proper and good for you. Your mother has insisted on being seen as the “senior” parent, and now grandparent. This was evident at Tyler ’s birthday PARTY that I was excluded from participating in. I was allowed to speak to my grandson on his birthday, where there was no party, but, when it came to bonding with me in a celebration of his birthday, then it never occurred to you that I should not be left out – for Tyler ’s sake. This is why I did not show up last year as I feared Tyler ’s birthday would be just another occasion for your mother to exhibit to all HER family, that she is the senior parent and grandparent.
Finding out your unwed daughter is pregnant is a shock no Christian parent wants to face, but many do. Try as hard as we might, we cannot keep our children from the consequences of their sin. So what can you do if your unwed, church-raised daughter becomes pregnant?
Tricia Goyer, once an unwed, teen mom herself, offers some excellent advice for parents in this situation in her blog post, When Your Church-Raised Daughter is Pregnant.
Though emotions are running high, Tricia encourages Mom and Dad to “take a deep breath… and remember that even more important than winning this battle is staying connected with your daughter’s heart.” She offers two ways to do that.
First, offer lots of love and grace. This is not necessarily the time for tough love. If your daughter understands the gospel, Tricia explains, she already knows she has sinned. What she needs now is love and grace. Remind your daughter (and yourself!) that though she is dealing with the consequences of sin, God’s loves us and his grace is always available to us. Support her in her decision to choose life for her unborn child.
There were 1.6 million births out of wedlock in 2014, accounting for 40 percent of the births in the U.S. Closer scrutiny of custody arrangements for the children of parents who never marry, or who divorce, coincides with a national push, by fathers’ rights groups, to give fathers more custodial rights over their children, and a push to sort out custodial rights of gay couples.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/201305/field-guide-the-stage-mom-the-pusher
https://www.healthyway.com/content/the-effects-being-a-stage-mom-has-on-your-child/
“It’s one thing to have a child who has an innate talent and to try to help that talent blossom, but it’s a whole other thing to use your child to try to make your family famous,” Berman said. “I think that a parent who would use their child to try to get fame and attention is a very disturbed parent.”
Stage parents, Berman believes, are people who want to stay “overinvolved in their child’s life” and “often times lose their own identity in their child’s identity and success,” which, she thinks can have a lot of long term negative effects on the kids.
From: Bancrofthouse
Sent: March 12, 2001 2:31:47 PM GMT
Subject: Re: a message from Patrice
Jon, It¡¯s great that its coming together so easily for you to come
here soon. I really trust that this all is in the hands of angels
and
that everything that is needed will be provided in terms of where
you
can stay, etc. I will try to talk to Diane today. It¡¯s a little odd
living in someone else¡¯s house because I can¡¯t just open the house
to
my friends without clearing it and working out an exchange that
works
for the owner. But she¡¯s really great and I feel she will understand
and be supportive. Plus she is a great
artist and will appreciate another artist and she is very familiar
with Rosamond¡¯s work, so I¡¯m sure it will be perfect and a win for
everyone.
I thought you should have the number for the phone that goes into
Heather¡¯s room. She has her own line. It is.
I¡¯ve been thinking about the apparent conflict in regard to the
biography. Perhaps there is information I don¡¯t have but it seems to
me that a biography written by the brother would be a very different
book from a very different perspective than one written by an
outsider and so there would be room for the creation of both of
them.
I know when I am really
interested in someone or something, I like to get my hands on as
many
resources as possible to get information from a variety of points of
view. So I don¡¯t see that it needs to be an either/or situation.
But,
as I said, perhaps there is something I don¡¯t know that you do. We
can talk about it more. Tom
Snyder seems like a really nice guy also. It seems he is supportive
of you and he definitely played an important part in connecting you
with Heather and
that is important and not to be ignored.
I¡¯m excited too. Maybe not as excited as you and Heather, but pretty
excited. I do look forward to seeing you again. I¡¯m happy this is
all
out in the open now. It kind of lifts a weight off me that I wasn¡¯t
really aware of but can notice now how much better it feels that you
know about your daughter.
Love and blessings! Patrice
Heather
Dad
Heather Hanson <hthr_hanson@yahoo.com> wrote:
Hello Dad,I just tried to send you this same message but I think I messed up any how here it is again just in case. I recieve your message from Schamus and I thought it was very nice. I was glad to hear form you. I have been thinking about you a lot and I have some wonderful news I have been wanting to share with you. On April 15th I will be giving bith to your first Grandson.Ryan and are still together and he is the father of this baby. We did not plan this and we were both surprised to find that I was pregnant. I first felt that I needed to get an abortion and I even set up an appointment but I couldn’t go through with it. I know that Ryan and I will be wonderful parents and I felt this baby diserved a chance. We are both very happy and excited about this new arival. I hope you are doing well and I would like to hear back from you. You can e-mail me at hthr_hanson@yahoo.com.
Love;HeatherHeather <hhanson939@comcast.net>
To:braskewitz@yahoo.com
Apr 28, 2007 at 9:09 AM
Hi Dad,
I didn’t get a chance to read this in depth so I just skimed it over a bit. I am not so sure PAS is a factor. My mom however did suffer from this growing up. Her father would tell her horrible things about her mother and was constanly talking down about her. My mom is very consious about how devistating this can be. As a child she took everything her father was saying about her mother inward and applied it to herself leaving her feeling worthless. She has allways been very carful not to do that with her children. She has never said anything bad about you or my brothers fathers. She has left it up to us to make our own desisions. We’ll talk more aout this on the phone. Tyler is getting in to some thing in the kitchen. Love you.
—– Original Message —–
From: John Ambrose
To: heather hanson ; Michael Dundon
Sent: Friday, April 27, 2007 10:54 AM
Subject: Parental Alienation Syndrome
Dear Heather;
I want you to read this, as much as possible, then discuss this with your therapist. You are continuing to alienate me as a parent, and now grandparent. This is because your mother, the gate keeper, told you this is proper and good for you. Your mother has insisted on being seen as the “senior” parent, and now grandparent. This was evident at Tyler ’s birthday PARTY that I was excluded from participating in. I was allowed to speak to my grandson on his birthday, where there was no party, but, when it came to bonding with me in a celebration of his birthday, then it never occurred to you that I should not be left out – for Tyler ’s sake. This is why I did not show up last year as I feared Tyler ’s birthday would be just another occasion for your mother to exhibit to all HER family, that she is the senior parent and grandparent.
The letter your mother sent me, several years ago, that you signed, that made me out to be DANGEROUS, must be addressed in a professional manner, as it will forever loom large as a document that promotes Parental Alienation – especially when soon after it was sent, your mother did not use her positions as ‘Gate Keeper’ to STOP you from visiting members of my family, who in turn acted like Gate Keepers, they keeping it a secret from me they were seeing you, and knew where you lived. In order to reinforce their roles, I must continually be see as DANGEROUS, which does infuriate me, as it would anyone – including your Mother Superior who in my opinion keeps experimenting on her children in order to obtain a soundness of mind she did not have before she ever had children. That Patrice played the Gate Keeper with Holly in regards to that movie, will not be forgotten, as it made Patrice the Senior Grandmother.
To be excluded from your High School Graduation DOES NOT demonstrate your willingness to see your mother as the Senior Parent, but your mother’s willingness to be viewed as such. Strangely enough she took this attitude with Randy Delpiano, who she knew was NOT your father, and thus she could look down upon him as a INFERIOR. Indeed, your mother only feels comfortable when she is bonded to inferior men, which is a trait you have subscribed to in regards to Ryan, whom his friends said….HE DOES’NT DESERVE YOU! Your mother has never felt I deserve to be your REAL father. I believe she extends this WISH of hers to our grandson.
Vicki and Shamus worked in tandum to get you to alienate your parent, your father. Shamus went so far to say he was protecting my un-born grandson from my “emotional abuse” that would result in you having contact with me after you disapeared from my life for three years. When it come to Parental Alienation, there is an insidious punnishment and reward system.
Your mother in a letter to the Mission says she knew your were my child, but, you deserved to be with her. She knew how to contact me after she broke up with Randy. That Patrice bids you to form a bond with my famous sister you never met – since you can remember – was just another attempt to make me a inferior parent, and she a SUPERIOR PERSON. You believe your mother is a superior person to me – and you do and say things that enforces HER belief.
Jon
“When false allegations of emotional abuse are leveled, one often finds that what is present is actually differing parental judgment that is being framed as “abusive” by the absent parent Dad”
“The common thread to all of these tactics is that one parent is superior and the other is not and, therefore, should be peripheral to the child’s life. The alienating parent in these circumstances is acting inappropriately as a gatekeeper for the child to see the absent parent. When this occurs for periods of substantial time, the child is given the unspoken but clear message that one parent is senior to the other. Younger children are more vulnerable to this message and tend to take it uncritically; however, one can always detect elements of it echoed even into the teenage years. The important concept here is that each parent is given the responsibility to promote a positive relationship with the other parent. When this principle is violated in the context of blocking access on a consistent basis, one can assume that Criteria I has been, unmistakably identified.”
I asked you to call me because I thought you were Shamus playing more games. When I got no call I thought I had proof Shamus made this e-mail address up, and posed as you. I was not negative three years ago. You and your mother broke my heart and all but destoryed me. All you thought about was how you felt. Thank God I have good friends who pulled me through.I had no way to call you, or contact you. Your mother closed the P.O.Box. The next thing I hear is, Shamus has talked to you and bad-mouthed me to you. What do you have to do with him – and not me? What was the attraction. To hear from Lillian you are going to name my grandson after her, is more of what I experianced in not being there when you were born, when you grew up. I thought we agreed that was a tradgedy, yet you are repeating it. Why? What is my crime? You were negative three years ago, and so was your mother. Did I punnish you two. Did I disaprear from your lives without a trace. No.I need a call from you to prove you are not Shamus playing more games. If you exist, then I need to know what exactly it is that you found so negatrive about me. Was it the accusations Vicki and Shamus lied about what happneded at Rocky Point? Well, they did lie!Not inviting your father to your High School graduation – IS considered a very negative thing all across America.JonHeather Hanson <hthr_hanson@yahoo.com> wrote:
Dear Dad,Today I checked my e-mail for the first time in several days. I am so busy with school and work that I only get time to check my e-mails about once a week.I was surprised to find that I had so many e-mails. I was even more surprise to find that these e-mails were filled with abusive and hurtful words from my own father. Dad, I know you are a smart man but obviously you are not wise enough to know that these hurtful and abusive words are the reason I decided to stop communicating with you in the first place. I don’t know any one with the right mind who would continue to let this type of abuse flood there computer screen and phone conversations. It is completely uncalled for and unnecessary.I hope you can understand that I can not continue to allow this kind of negativity into my life and I have told you this before. I set up this yahoo account and gave you an e-mail address in hopes that we could try to establish a relationship. But, if I receive as much as one more abusive, negative and hurtful e-mail from you again I will simply have close this account. I don’t deserve this kind of treatment. So it is up to you whether you want to continue to be able to communicate with me.Please Dad, leave the demands behind and allow our relationship to grow. Don’t push me away. I love you.Heather
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